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So many people try to get their needs met by pointing out what isn’t working. And while that makes sense, it often backfires. When communication sounds like criticism, the other person’s nervous system goes into defense mode, especially if they lean avoidant. What actually creates movement is translating frustration into clear, specific needs. It’s not “you’re not supportive enough.” It’s “I feel supported when you help with the dishes and check in with me at the end of the day.” When you learn
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